The part that is not whole has to give up so that the part that is whole can be realized. It’s your own self that you end up realizing, as a matter of fact—the self that you’ve always been. It’s just that your self, which is completely dependent and psychic and connected with all beings, is the one that you’re rejecting during the first part of your life. You’re rejecting it. You’re saying it is not good. Then it turns out to have always been good, it turns out to be the only good part.